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Engage Spotlight: What Drivers Are Actually Telling Us

Written by Alyssa Kirkman | Jun 15, 2026

Ask a driver what makes them stay with an organization, and the answer is rarely about pay alone. It's about whether the job matches what they were promised. Whether someone picks up the phone. Whether they feel supported or on their own.

That's the conversation WIT member Nicole Chukreeff started on Engage, and the replies that followed are worth reading.

The Question That Started It

Chukreeff is Founder of FleetGrowth Partners, a consulting and advisory practice focused on helping fleets identify where breakdowns occur across the driver lifecycle and how those gaps impact recruiting performance, retention, and overall operational efficiency. She opened the thread with something she keeps seeing from the inside: most companies assume they know when professional truck drivers start to disengage. They'll point to orientation, or dispatch, or the first week. But when you look more closely, she wrote, "there's usually no real data behind it. No clear ownership. Just a guess that's been repeated enough to feel true."

Her question to the community was simple: Where do you actually see things begin to break down?

A Driver Answers

Theresa Davis, a professional truck driver with Bennett International Group, responded with 46 years of experience behind her answer.

For Davis, the need starts before a driver ever turns a wheel. When recruiters tell drivers what they want to hear instead of how the company actually operates, she explained, it rarely ends well: "The drivers you hire when they have an accurate picture of how their job will work have a better chance of staying." Honest recruiting isn't just good ethics; it's practical retention.

She also named something that's easy to overlook: new drivers need to know who to call. "Ask your dispatcher" is the standard answer, but it breaks down fast when that dispatcher is juggling forty or fifty trucks. "If a new driver has multiple questions per day, it is frustrating for both sides." What drivers need, she said, is clarity and a real point of contact who can actually help.

Davis closed with something that stuck with the whole thread. In 15 years, she and her co-driver have been lucky enough to have two genuinely good recruiting experiences. She said they now try to pay that forward by offering their numbers to new drivers and helping them through the first few months.

The Community Responds

Norita Taylor, a communications, public relations and membership with the Owner-Operator Independent Drivers Association (OOIDA), added her perspective to the thread. What resonated most with her was Taylor’s observation about assumptions hardening into fact. "I especially appreciate your point about the lack of data to support assumptions that have manifested as fact due to being repeated over and over," she said. Drivers, she agreed, can handle a hard job. What they struggle with is an unclear one.

Jennifer Hartung, a driver with 25 years behind the wheel who now operates Your Co-Driver LLC, brought the thread to its sharpest point.

"By the time a driver quits, the decision usually started much earlier," she wrote. "Not from one major event. From friction. Broken expectations. Dispatch communication. Equipment issues. Missed home time. Silence when support is needed."

And then, the line that captured everything: "Drivers don't quit trucking. Drivers quit friction."

What the Thread Is Really Saying

Chukreeff, Davis, Taylor and Hartung are coming at this from different corners of the industry: recruiting, driving, advocacy, and onboarding. But what they're describing is the same thing. Drivers need accuracy over a sales pitch, clarity over assumptions, and someone in their corner when things get complicated.

The thread is still going. If you've been on either side of this conversation as a driver, a recruiter, a fleet manager, or someone building solutions, there's room for your voice.

Join the conversation on Engage.

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